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Who Else Wants to Win?

By Gary Kleiban 125 Comments

Yeah, that’s what I thought. Winning fucking matters! And don’t you ever forget it. The only question (AND IT’S A CRITICAL ONE) really revolves around context. Under what circumstances has winning occurred? What were the pros/cons considering short, medium, and long term objectives? But, whatever your answers … on the whole, winning matters. Chronic losers […]

Filed Under: Philosophy, Practical, Problems, Soccer Education Tagged With: Development, Education, excuses, Philosophy, Practical, Problems

1 Truth, 1 Fallacy, and 1 Solution for Coaching Possession Soccer

By Gary Kleiban 138 Comments

A Truth It can be successfully done across all levels of play. The main reason it’s rarely seen, is that most coaches have not acquired the expertise to do it. First and foremost, a coach must develop a possession-based philosophy (a vision … a taste … a feel for that type of football). Then he […]

Filed Under: Club Soccer, Practical, Soccer Education Tagged With: Development, Education, excuses, Philosophy, Solutions

You Know What They Say About Arguing With Idiots …

By Gary Kleiban 83 Comments

… they drag you down to their level, and then beat you with experience. But still, it’s an exercise in willpower to stay away. It’s hard to let ignorance, be ignorance. Sometimes you say to yourself: maybe if I just spoke their language they might understand something You start rationalizing: If I don’t say anything, […]

Filed Under: MLS, Problems, Soccer Education, Uncategorized Tagged With: Development, Education, excuses, Problems

Caleb Porter Took A Dump All Over US Soccer

By Gary Kleiban 91 Comments

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Here’s the number one lesson to take away from the U23 performance against Mexico: People have a lot to learn about this sport. I mean A LOT! Stop making excuses for not being able to play dominant possession-centered soccer. You can’t play that way because this is college soccer. You can’t play that way because […]

Filed Under: National Team, Problems, Soccer Education, Solutions Tagged With: Education, excuses, Solutions, USMNT

A Program from the American Soccer Status Quo Playbook

By Gary Kleiban 4 Comments

Just fill in the blanks and you’ll fit right in with the American soccer incumbents. _______________ (Possession/4-3-3/Passing out of the back) like __________________ (F.C. Barcelona/Spain/Ajax) would never work for a __________________ (Mid-low table Premier League/Major League Soccer/NCAA Division I) team. The __________________ (British/American/American College) game is too ____________ (Fast/Physical/Aggressive) for a ________________ (British/MLS/College) team to play […]

Filed Under: Problems, Soccer Education Tagged With: College Soccer, Education, excuses, MLS, Problems

Referee Influence on Style of Play

By Gary Kleiban 51 Comments

There has been plenty of talk as to referees essentially dictating style of play. Not just of one game, but on entire leagues and at all levels. The implication is that this has direct influence on a coach’s player selections and the style of play he implements. So generally: Spain has more possession, skill-based play […]

Filed Under: Soccer Education Tagged With: Education, excuses

Why Bob Bradley Got Fired

By Gary Kleiban 18 Comments

CONGRATULATIONS! Whether you’d like to believe it or not, this is your triumph. I believe Bob was relieved of his duties in large part due to your collective voices. Like the last point in my optimistic piece, 5 positive influences on US Soccer in 2010, suggested, I had never witnessed such a strong and sustained […]

Filed Under: National Team, News, Solutions Tagged With: excuses, Solutions, USMNT

A Letter to Our Players

By Gary Kleiban 7 Comments

We have several recently turned 20 year-olds from our first ever boys team that have true professional-level quality. Years ago, I predicted with 100% certainty that one kid in particular would go all the way. I actually have standing bets with people on this (most notable are $500 on one, and a lobster dinner every […]

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Advice, Development, Elite, excuses, motivation

It’s Gotta Be The …

By Gary Kleiban 30 Comments

Culture? The following is perhaps the most accepted as insurmountable. Soccer in the Home The scapegoat is usually of the “soccer isn’t popular” variety. Which of course implies that daddy wants to play catch with the kids; not kick the ball. And even if all those daddy’s chose to help their kids with soccer, they […]

Filed Under: Problems, Soccer Education, Solutions Tagged With: excuses, Problems, Solutions

Sooooo … Now What?

By Gary Kleiban 19 Comments

It’s been 5 long years of this: “It was our B-team.” “The players were tired.” “Bradley’s tactics were spot on.” “Bradley’s tactics were off.” “Bradley should try the youth.” “Onyewu never recovered from his injury.” “The ref sucks.” “We just don’t have the players.” “Give him time.” “We’re making progress.” “We beat Spain.” “We tied […]

Filed Under: National Team, Problems Tagged With: excuses, Problems, USMNT

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